Though they make time for ppl who matter in their life e. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. She is going to be taught for the rest of her life in the church the importance of missionary work and eternal families, and Priesthood in the home. I need suggestions to handld the neurotic behavior, ocd, and opinions. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. That will most likely be the deal breaker for her. I am dating a great guy who happens to be a very brilliant doctor going into residency very soon. I love my husband so much, but 40 years of loneliness has been more than difficult.
Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. It is fundamental that we focus foremost on developing ourselves as suitably strong men. I am an extrovert too, I do feel lonely when my husband is not around on weekends or holidays or when I fall sick. He might be a doc by day but when he's not at the hospital he's a regular guy just like anyone else. My seminary teacher went off on me about dating a non Mormon when I was talking about going to his prom. Keep things going and see what happens. But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense.
This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. And when you give all that you have to support someone else's dream, the money, cars, jewelry, etc mean little, unless you're a gold digger.
If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. We also live in a foreign country which is another element of difficulty. Oh well, I'll just pretend she's not mormon and see what happens. After residency, depending on what specialty they do, there will be a separate set of rules of how they have to give their time oncall, early surgery times, working holidays etc. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. Of course we are talking abt kids and marriage all the time. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not.