When I finally let go and did what felt pleasurable is when it first happened. The intensity just kept increasing, and it kind of hit a plateau before I squirted. I tensed up which I would later find helps the process along quite a bit , then I found myself completely sated. There are of course general things that apply to everyone, like nerve endings and arousal -- but the 'how to' varies so much from person to person. In the interest of the greater good, Dr. Castellanos agreed to go deep on the subject. This is the big conundrum. Most people, when they talk about ejaculation, their frame of reference is men. If you take that same model and apply it to women, it doesn't translate.
Her Squirting Anatomy
Squirting does not come out of the vagina
The orgasmic potential massage will help your partner become more easily orgasmic and squirt more quickly, with larger volumes, more often. Us men have much less control using our penises rather than our fingers to stimulate the perfect spot. Quickly before we get started… if you want my step by step video program to becoming incredible in bed a certified sex god then check out Squirting Triggers 2. As men we always like to simplify things down to the physical technique and this is usually why most guys who have a made a girl squirt can only do so inconsistently. Real mastery in learning how to make a girl squirt comes from how well you can build trust, be non-judgmental, hold space and be her guiding masculine energy without being pushy.
Squirting and female ejaculation are NOT the same thing
However, all women have the inherent physical ability to ejaculate. Some women are very comfortable with this. But some women have never even had an orgasm before. However, a woman who has never had an orgasm will be a much greater challenge.
If you're new here, you may want to get my discreet newsletter for men to learn how to make her sexually obsessed with you. Click here to get it. It's free. It's discreet. Before we jump, I want to quickly cover the groundwork that will make it far easier for you to make her squirt on a regular basis.