Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. We're giving it to you straight because we hope to help you avoid the heartache many of us have experience due to the harmful teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. In each case, you should also consider how this will affect your families.
There are many good things. If she can't or won't consider that the church is a lie, you need to move on because this relationship can't go anywhere. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. And don't fall for all their talk of being open and welcoming. I am not going to blame him for not putting effort into it, because he probably put as much effort into it as he could. If you can't, then it's best to move on.
I grew up in a very strict Mormon home and dated only Mormon men until I met my now husband. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. Even if you are looking towards marriage, it can be better to hold off on more serious activities until a couple of dates to make sure you both feel the relationship is moving in the right direction.
Do you really love him, honey. You will always be 2nd. As such, it tends to attract the young and insecure. Until you do he's a free agent and in high demand. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. I am married to an ER doc. Juggle them with a working wife, a housewife with children and things become difficult. A patient of his went into labor, was having a rough time and he spent the next 32 hours at the hospital. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings.